Sanya Richards-Ross.Photo:Courtesy of Erick Robinson
Courtesy of Erick Robinson
“It was very traumatic,” recalls Richards-Ross, who shares sonAaron Jermaine, 6 next month, with husband and former NFL starAaron Ross. “I was in New York and had a really bad miscarriage. I had to go to the hospital. I had to have a blood transfusion. It was very, very, very scary.”
“You already opened your heart to becoming a mom, so it was awful,” she adds. “Even just talking about it… it really was a difficult time.”
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Sanya Richards-Ross and Aaron Ross.Courtesy of Erick Robinson
The painful loss provided Richards-Ross with a turning point, though. AsRHOAviewers have seen, she’d been reluctant to have another child, after finally finding stability in the wake of a few years of significant changes in her life.
“I think a lot of women can relate to this too, but when you become a mom, you can sometimes question, ‘What’s my identity now going to be outside of the home?’ " Richards-Ross says. “I had been an athlete, competing across the world while representing Team USA. Then, after retiring from sports and having a son, all these life changes hit Ross and I simultaneously. It was like a tornado hit our relationship for that 14 years prior to having our son was like a honeymoon at the time. And It was really overwhelming.”
“Don’t get me wrong, Aaron and I, we loved being parents,” Richards-Ross adds. “But all these years in, we had just gotten into a good rhythm where we finally figured out how we wanted to parent. We had that balance where we were communicating well again, I was finally working again… And so I was skeptical about having another child.”
Sanya Richards-Ross.Courtesy of Erick Robinson
The miscarriage “put everything in perspective for Richards-Ross,” she tells PEOPLE. “I didn’t realize until then how much I really wanted to become a mom again and how much of a blessing it is to be a mom. And I was like, ‘You know what? It’s family first, and all the other things that I love — which is work and all that stuff, it’s second. I know if I do this, if I focus on my family, all those things will come.'”
Richards-Ross was lucky enough to get pregnant again about a month later. “At my age, it’s considered a geriatric pregnancy, so I was nervous that the window has started to close. And after the miscarriage, I wasn’t ready to go through something like that again — that physical, mental, and emotional pain. But my doctor assure me that everything looks good, and sure enough, it worked.”
“I didn’t think it’d happen so quick again. But my husband, he prides himself. He’s like, ‘I never miss. Whenever you’re ready, I’m ready,’ " she laughs.
Sanya Richards-Ross with son Aaron Jermaine and husband Aaron Ross.Courtesy of Erick Robinson
She’s now four-months pregnant and due on December 25, 2023. “It’s going to be the best Christmas gift ever,” she laughs. “But I just couldn’t be happier and more clear about. I know I can do this. I’ve done it before. I have the support. I know what to expect. I’m so ready to meet this little one.”
“I told my husband, ‘I don’t know at what point in life you understand you will have disappointments along the way, but I hate that this had to be an example for him’ But when I got pregnant again, his reaction was so special,” Richards-Ross says. “He said, ‘God does answer prayers!’ And I could just see that joy and renewed faith in him, which made this all that much more powerful for me, in a way.”
“I’ve never felt more beautiful,” Richards-Ross says. “Just so happy to have these pictures to mark this time in my life. It’s been a hard journey getting here, but I am so glad for the obstacles cause they made me that much stronger.”
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source: people.com
