Michael J. Fox’s love story with his wife, actressTracy Pollan, is one for the ages.
Fox, 61, met Pollan, 62, after she was cast in 1985 as his girlfriend on his hit ’80s sitcomFamily Ties, though it was later that the two became a couple while making the 1988 filmBright Lights, Big City. Now married 34 years, they share four children: son Sam, 33, twin daughters Aquinnah and Schuyler, 27, and youngest daughter Esmé, 21.
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In practice that means even in small moments of friction, they try to place themselves in the other’s shoes. Should Fox, for example, be short with a response, “my first assumption is not that he’s not being unkind to me. It’s that something else was going on,” says Pollan. “And he does the same [with] me. It’s assuming the best from the person you live with until you are actually presented with the worst. And same with our parenting: It’s also how we are with our kids.”
“It is all about acceptance,” Fox adds.
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Fox appears on this week’s cover of PEOPLE’s Kindness issue, and even through the most difficult times, Pollan calls her husband “one of the most kind people I’ve ever met.” She credits how he was raised, noting that he “almost always looks at the situation and at the people involved and thinks about others before he thinks about himself.”
Fox says in the last year, which has held apainful cascade of injuries, including a broken cheek, hand, shoulder and arm, he’s also reconsidered on how his health and recovery affects those around him.
“It took me a while to get that it wasn’t just about me,” says Fox. “If I break my arm, I’m dealing with my broken arm. But if you’re the person who lives with and loves and supports the person with the broken arm, you’ve got to do everything.”
“My best life now is I enjoy my family so much,” says Fox. “Tracy and the kids are amazing. I know that sounds boring, it sounds like a fairy tale, but we’ve been married thirtysomething years, so we’ve got something figured out.”
source: people.com
